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What sexiness Isnt...Trying to be something you are not.

Now days there are many many people who believe just thinking something is enough for it to happen. While a positive mind set is essential for a satisfying life. Authentic positivity comes from being proactive in your life. Confidence and self esteem come from setting a goal for yourself and working on it- till you achieve it.

We make excuses all the time for not acheiving things - we think "if its meant to happen it will happen"

In truth if you really want something only you can acheive it. Even in cases of luck - you still have to make the most of the opportunities you have been given.

And in terms of being attractive - authenticity is so much more sexy than a person that has a big fake smile on their face - when on the inside their self esteem is shot. This doesnt mean crying all day for weeks on end, or dwelling on the past is o.k and sexy - its not. But it does mean that you can recognize when you are having an off day and not fight it. Instead listen to the message your heart is giving you and then you can choose to do something about it.

Dont hate on your emotions! Emotions are natural and are there for a Reason- They reflect back to you how you are feeling about your life. If you embrace your emotions and listen to their message instead of trying to supress them. You will be able to start changing the areas of your life that are holding you back and even start to love the process.

Learning to love all parts of yourself - even the... hyperchondriac, or the part of you thats scared of bungee jumping or that hates bananas, or that is grumpy unless you have a morning coffee...this is part of authentic self love. Dont feel you have to change for someone else- if you want to change only ever do it for yourself.

Its Time To Get Real Ladies! and love your life

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