There are many methods
around which promise to teach you The Art of Seduction, show you how to
flirt and how to attract men.
Do they work??
Sometimes they do...sometimes they dont.
Sometimes you can learn a skill and it can create a new feeling of
confidence and applying a certain technique to a certain
situation can work beautifully.
But of course any technique- if used incorrectly- can come accross as
fake and manipulative and at worst give off the opposite vibe than what
you truly want.
In general i would steer clear of anything that makes you feel like you
are playing a "game". On the other hand any tips or tools that make you feel confident,
sensual, engaging and most importantly Like
yourself then thats great!
For example lets take the concept "playing hard to get"
This if used as a "game" will never work. It becomes obvious. The man
you like will most likely very easily catch on to what you are doing-
and lose interest.
However if you are "hard to get" simply because you dont feel the need to chase a man and like to take your time before
you sleep with someone...
this is perfectly fine. if they are genuine values they will come
accross as genuine- and any guy who is interested in you will likely
respect that and enjoy the challenge.
If they are not genuine- you will come accross as an easy girl who is
desperately trying to appear "hard to get"- not such a cool look.
Attitude is everything and once you assimilate something into your own
belief system it will be natural for you- and it will be authentic.
So Flirting tips and seduction classes- can be fun,
they can be great confidence builders too. which is a wonderful thing
But the true Art of Seduction is about two people seeing something they are
attracted to in the other person, and wanting to know more. This cannot be faked.
But you can help yourself out, by learning to be more confident in yourself and more present in the moment.
aim to be present not perfect
The most
attractive thing is always a genuine connection. So allow yourself to
become more free, not more trapped.
Games require rules, and rules are the opposite of freedom. Anything
that makes you feel you should behave in a way thats not what your
heart is teliing you to do- is likely not going to feel good.
so ladies enjoy seduction tools but always, always listen to yourself.
Live and let live!
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